Last night a high school friend sent some pictures out from our middle school and high school days. We looked so young. This was my crew circa 1991:
I unfortunately forget the particular event - it very well could have been my fourteenth birthday. I look back at us and wonder about what we knew. What did we know about what our lives had in store for us? We certainly look like we knew a thing or two about friends, fun, and causing innocent trouble. But really, what did we know?
Another party, this one probably a few years later and perhaps another birthday party:
Still looks like fun, although perhaps a little less innocent. And really, nobody thought to tell me about hair product? Really? Perhaps after my Pat Riley phase in the sixth grade (no pictures available, sorry!), everyone thought I was better off going cold turkey. Or at least they were waiting for me to go through a 12 step program and apologize for my past sins. Believe me, there were many, at least in the haircuts department!
And the end of high school, June 1995:
Going to college was certainly a significant life-changing transformation. Or a series of them. I learned a little more, but even then, what did I really know?
Fifteen years later, I certainly feel like I have more sense then back in high school - god, how cruel would the world be to have it be otherwise? - but really, what do I know? I suppose, based on my recent birthday festivities, you could say that I know something about friends, fun, and causing trouble. And I still like to throw a party. And I still act more mature than my father - even if only just!
Maybe next year I will find the wisdom and sense I seek ... or at least enough of it to confiscate cameras from the parties.